There is so much power in collaboration – and I don’t just mean on work or business projects. The Well Supported Woman is built on the belief that crowdsourcing our life & personal development makes us stronger, more productive & happier.
Just think about all the badass people in your life. Odds are, they’re full of wisdom, experience and insights that can help you on your own journey, but they may not know you need or want their input. People love to talk about themselves, and I genuinely believe that most people want to help others succeed –so don’t worry about being an inconvenience.
(Is there a right and wrong way to ask for support? Absolutely. Click here to download the guide to the Do’s and Don’t of Asking for Support in the Support Vault! Already a member of the Vault? Click here to login.)
Learning how to become a Well Supported Woman is like hacking your own personal development. You’re becoming incredibly efficient by learning from the experience of others, you’re building your confidence & connections, and you’re inviting future karmic opportunities to help your supporters when they need it, too.
Just in case I didn’t make this obvious, support can come from external sources like other people, OR from internal sources. Yes – you can support yourself. And that’s exactly what you’re doing when you’re committing to changing habits and learning about yourself!
But when we feel overwhelmed by the world of personal development it can feel impossible to know where to focus our attention or where to ask for external support.
It seems like another daunting task to try to understand our stressors or analyze our situation – and our overloaded brains just can’t handle it. We don’t know if we should be reading self-help books, working with a coach, journalling our heart out or just expanding our social circles. We just want things to be EASIER, and we want to feel inspired and motivated by our own growth.
That’s why I created The Well Supported Woman – to help you start down the personal development path, rather than spinning your wheels indefinitely. I prioritized the three areas of growth that I think are most beneficial to living a happy and fulfilled life – confidence, clarity and connection. Your unique self-help support plan will come down to you choosing which branch to explore, reflect on and implement first, based on which will be the most applicable to your needs.
You may want to start with Confidence if…
- You feel unsure about your voice, your message, or your presence
- You feel like your negative self talk is the biggest roadblock keeping you from success and happiness
- You struggle to identify your core values and gifts
If this is you, start here:
You may want to start with Clarity if…
- You want to change your life but don’t know how, and feel stuck in analysis paralysis
- You struggle with setting and completing tangible daily tasks and goals
- Looking ahead to your future feels like squinting through your windshield in a car wash. You know there are things out there, but you just can’t make out what they are yet.
If this is you, start here:
- How the hell do I find clarity?
- Make 2017 your most badass year ever
- How to use mindmapping to discover your purpose
You may want to start with Connection if…
- You’re realizing that you crave more deep connection with yourself, with other people in your life, or with source (you can call source God, the Universe, powers that be, whatever)
- You feel like you’ve outgrown your friend group and are looking to expand and grow your community
- Networking scares the pants off of you. We are trying to avoid a no-pants-in-public situation at all costs.
If this is you, start here:
- What you’re ‘good at’ will never make you happy
- 5 Tips to help introverts hate networking less
- Meditation for beginners
Now that you have a starting point, jump in! Don’t put off what could change your life now.
Hop on over to The Well Supported Woman Facebook group and share your results to get supported by other women seeking your same branch of personal growth. And for even more resources and goodies, be sure to subscribe for access to The Support Vault. It’s where I upload all my favorite worksheets and tools to support you in your efforts to grow confidence, clarity and connection.
